Professional success but can't find love? ❤️
It's the #1 question I get from clients and students the world over:
“How can I feel so confident and successful in my professional life, but not in my love life?” 🤷🏾♀️
I actually think it's the top pain point that conscious singles feel – especially women.
Here's the typical answer I hear:
“Maybe it's because I've devoted so much time and effort to my career that I haven't focused enough on dating and relationships.”
That may be a tiny piece of the 🧩 puzzle, dear one. But is it 100% true?? I have a feeling you're pretty intentional about love (otherwise you wouldn't be reading a love coach's blog!). And intentional people tend to take action in the direction of their dreams.
So if you've made oodles of professional breakthroughs but can't get traction with love, what is actually going on? It's often something much deeper…
And it's exactly what I unravel in my convo with Sheila Botelho, self-care strategist and host of the popular podcast Connect.
Because Sheila has seen it too – women who are at the top of their games professionally, and whose relationship and dating lives are suffering. And the worst part is not knowing why. 🙈
Here’s the good news, love: it’s actually an easy fix, once you get mindful and intentional about it (that’s you – the uber-intentional sacred love seeker!).
As I discuss with Sheila, you have to look at which seeds of your potential have gotten watered in your life from childhood up until now – and which seeds have not.
Oftentimes, it’s the seeds for accomplishments and approval that have gotten showered with rain throughout your life. So it’s no wonder that those seeds have taken root and blossomed into the big, blooming trees of your professional life. 🌳
And the seeds for feeling cherished and loved for who you are at your core? Those ones have shriveled for lack of water. So how could they even take root, much less blossom into the vibrant garden you’re dreaming of for your love life?
If you’re a veteran of my Insight Timer course, “How to Attract Love into Your Life”, you know that my favorite metaphor for sacred partnership is this one: two trees whole and complete onto themselves, yet choosing to grow side-by-side, their roots and branches becoming more entwined over the years.
So how do you ⁉️ become whole and complete onto yourself, so that your seed for love can take root and shoot up like your professional tree has done?
Because as Sheila and I talk about, that's when the magic happens – when you step into your fullness with love, you bring even more of your full self into your career, and absolutely everything takes off in your life. 🥳🎉🎈
Here are just some of the nuggets 🔑 you'll take away from my powerful, upleveling conversation with Sheila. You'll learn how to:
Go from “love hungry” to whole, so you stop feeling love-starved on the inside
Identify when you're in a “merging pattern” – a big obstacle to love – and pull yourself out
Add radical self-care into dating so you pace it out, rather than trying to “CEO” it with frantic action steps
You'll also experience a magical, 🪄 heart-opening practice for self-care that will bring you back to a loving, high-vibrational place every single time.
Why not bring all of that goodness into your day today? Take a listen here.
I can't wait to see your love garden burst into bloom! (After all, Spring starts this week, at least in the northern hemisphere. It's the perfect season for a new start☀️🌷).
AND if you still want more even after you listen to the podcast, we got your back! 💪
Sheila and I will be doing an Instagram Live together in two weeks to continue the conversation!
(Don't forget to follow me on Instagram for weekly love inspiration and to get notified when I'm live…)
In our live event, Sheila will share how she has kept her own sacred partnership strong for over 20 years while building a successful business and raising two sons. 🔥
Guess how they met? At a personal growth event! I know that's how many of you aspire to meet your own partners…on your same spiritual path.
Let Sheila's own love story be a beacon of light of what's possible for you too, dear one.
Join us live on IG: April 2, 3 pm PST for Sheila’s inspiring love story!
I can't wait to hear your thoughts on my latest podcast with Sheila!
Post a comment and tell me your takeaways! 🧑🏿💻
