What am I doing wrong?
Why does love never work out for me?
What am I doing wrong? Why does love never work out for me?
Maybe those questions are rolling around in your head too, love.
I CAN RELATE
Those kinds of painful thoughts haunted me for almost two decades. They made me doubt who I was and what I was worth at my soul level.
Whenever I was with someone I liked, I felt anxious and needy, just waiting for the other shoe to drop and the relationship to end - because that’s what always happened. When someone was really into me, it was usually someone I didn’t have strong feelings for, and eventually I would leave.
When I wasn’t in a relationship (which was most of the time), my loneliness felt like a bottomless pit. The worst part was how I felt about myself. There was an idea that was just below the surface, but always tugging at me: that there must be something wrong with me. Otherwise I would be in a loving partnership.
Whenever my despair reached a new low, I would either settle for a one-night stand or resign myself to a long dry spell and pretend that my singleness didn’t matter to me. But it did.
On my career path, I was successful in every possible way. In graduate school, I piled up the academic awards, including a Fulbright grant. I landed a plum university job in a charming California town that was most people’s vacation destination.
I couldn’t understand how I could “have it all” professionally, and yet feel a big, gaping hole in my life where love should have been. My life was amazing, but I wanted a loving partner to share it with. It was the biggest source of pain in my life.
Then one day, the light bulb went off.
I saw the exact painful moment in my childhood that had sent a false story to my subconscious mind and my energy field: You’re left out of love. Everyone gets it but you.
That’s when it all made sense - all of the choices I was making with dating and relationships were designed to keep me trapped in that old story, because it was familiar to me from an early age. Since I hadn’t seen that story before, I didn’t know how to heal it.
When I had this “a-ha” moment, I was just starting on my path to becoming an energy healer and counselor. And that’s what changed everything for me - my newfound understanding of the painful emotions that had become stuck and lodged in my energy field.
From there, my journey to love took on a whole new direction. It involved healing those young and tender emotional wounds, owning my worthiness for love, getting crystal-clear about the kind of person I wanted by my side for life, and learning how to date differently for that specific person.
That’s when all the magic began.
The day I turned 39, I set a strong intention to meet my soulmate by my 40th birthday. For most of that year, not much was happening on the outside with love. But on the inside, everything was shifting. Everyday, I fell more in love with myself, and more confident that love would come to me if I stayed the course.
About two months before I hit the Big 4-0, my dating life shifted completely. I was actually going on fewer dates than before, but with much higher caliber men. These were men who aligned perfectly with my vision for sacred partnership. Dating had always been torturous for me, but at that moment it became rich, rewarding, and - I could hardly believe it - FUN!
My now-husband Darrin was one of those men (and I’ll be honest, he was always the frontrunner!). He had the most beautiful face I had ever seen, and he won me over with his spiritual side, his deep emotional intelligence, and a zany sense of humor that fit me perfectly.
We met less than a month before I turned 40. In fact, he asked me for a second date on my 40th birthday – unbeknownst to him! Our relationship unfolded quickly and joyfully from there, since everything felt so right. We’ve been married for three years now, and we even started our sacred family when I gave birth to our beloved baby girl Ruby in 2018. Another dream fulfilled...
Every day, I wake up so grateful for our love. It is the sweetest, most uplifting feeling I could ever imagine. I feel loved wholeheartedly and supported at the deepest level of my being.
Darrin is my ideal match in every way: body, mind, heart, and soul. And I'm so grateful to myself for taking the time I needed to heal, transform, and prepare myself for sacred partnership. It was worth every minute.
EVERYTHING in my life has taken off since I've been in this partnership. With Darrin's unconditional love and support, I'm living my life purpose (writing, counseling, and energy healing) in a way I never have before. I believe that's the nature of a sacred partnership: it's like a warm spring rain that waters everything in your life – career, personal relationships, finances – making everything fertile and ripe.
If you’re connecting with my story, we should talk.
I found my way out of a dating slump and into an amazing love story, and I can help you do that too.
More magic happened during the months I was falling in love and beginning my new life with Darrin.
My single friends started calling me – LOTS of them!
They saw where I had started and where I ended up with love, and they wanted to know how I did it. That's when I knew I had something sacred to share with the world.
As a certified counselor and energy healer, my passion is helping conscious singles find their own compass for sacred love. I’ve provided this life-changing support through my private healing practice, as well as my highly successful “Opening to Sacred Love” online program. I’m also one of the leading relationship experts on the Insight Timer meditation app, where my meditations and talks have received nearly half a million plays.
I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that sacred love is for everyone. To become a bright light that attracts your soulmate to you, all it takes is intentionality, inner work, and inspired action.
But it can be hard to get there by yourself. I worked with mentors and healers along the way, and they all helped get me on my path to love.
When you and I work together, I’ll share with you the “best of the best” - everything I learned on my personal journey to love, plus powerful energy healing tools to shift you on the inside and help you attract differently with love.
With this same approach, I’ve helped hundreds of conscious singles feel amazing about themselves - and about dating - again, and ultimately come together with the love of their life.
You don’t have to do this alone. You’ve done enough on your own. Now you deserve support.
My most popular offering is my “Opening to Sacred Love” online program.
In 7 online modules packed with videos, audio lessons, written content, guided meditations, and daily practices, you’ll receive direct guidance on the “inner prep” and “outer steps” you need to take to come together with your sacred partner. Move through it at your own pace for maximum flexibility, and powerful results.
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